I have always enjoyed traveling; whether I’m diving into new and exotic cultures, exploring renowned historic landmarks around the globe, or relaxing on a pristine sandy shore with crystal-clear waters nearby.
In my opinion, traveling is one of life’s greatest adventures. My spouse and I developed our connection through a mutual love for exploration and have experienced many thrilling escapades together.
Our honeymoon lasted for an exhilarating five weeks across India, where we journeyed from one end to the other, experiencing stays in the desert, a palace, and even an ashram. However, traveling has significantly transformed over the past few years, much like our lives have altered slightly. Consequently, my spouse is not as enthusiastic about embarking on such adventures anymore.
As my spouse has aged, they’ve become less fond of the trouble involved in traveling. Let’s face it; there’s quite a bit of inconvenience. The process of taking out items from our luggage for security checks and removing shoes and belts can get tiresome.
Moreover, frequent delays and cancellations appear to be increasingly prevalent nowadays. Traveling by air has certainly lost much of its former enjoyment factor.
Nevertheless, I still enjoy escaping from routine, so what does this mean for me? Should I travel alone? To be honest, every time I’ve gone on a solo trip, I ended up meeting someone upon arrival.
When our life situations alter due to events like divorce, illness, or loss of loved ones, numerous women end up leading solitary lives as they advance in years. It’s crucial for later life to remain rich with excitement and happiness, which traveling helps achieve.
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I’m usually thrilled about traveling with my female friends, yet frequently they struggle due to their family obligations. Occasionally, I explore places where pals reside overseas, but what happens when you simply require some time off and can’t find anyone to accompany you?
I have multiple solo traveler acquaintances who enjoy traveling independently and seem quite content with it.
I know someone who has remained unattached for numerous years and embarks on solo journeys multiple times annually. This person excels professionally and is easily spotted wherever they go, yet this hasn’t deterred them from pursuing their interests. They particularly enjoy guided tours in Italy, which can range from exploring artistic masterpieces to learning how to cook authentic Italian dishes, depending on what appeals to them at the time. Regardless of these factors, they confidently proceed with their plans and lead a vibrant lifestyle. Their independence inspires me greatly, and I aspire to adopt such self-reliant thinking myself.
The task is about discovering an approach that suits your needs. Additionally, I’d like to mention that venturing beyond our comfort zones benefits us greatly. Pushing our limits helps us develop and gain strength.
Starting solo travel
1. Look into retreats
So where should we begin? It appears to me that
retreats
Are the ideal solution. How about a yoga retreat in Italy? Absolutely yes. Or perhaps a hiking and nature retreat in Spain? Certainly. These getaways offer the advantage of allowing you to connect with individuals who share similar interests; you may choose to socialize with them or maintain your privacy as per your preference. The decision rests entirely with you.
2. Destination decisions
Selecting the appropriate location and kind of vacation is essential. Should there be somewhere you have longed to visit, make it happen. When traveling solo and planning to see various attractions, consider joining a guided coach tour or excursion.
When it comes to adventures, the rule remains unchanged. Additionally, should you seek a tranquil getaway, various types of retreats are available, often situated in picturesque settings near seasides or mountain ranges. This seems like an ideal choice for me—typically, I plan trips outside school breaks to steer clear of large groups following unpleasant encounters with overpopulation in places such as Santorini and even secluded areas within my homeland of South Africa.
3. Short breaks
I strongly believe in taking brief respites. Ideally, I would take a lengthy three-day break every couple of months. Just a few days away from routine can provide enjoyment and increase our sense of well-being. This approach is particularly convenient for those traveling alone and serves as an excellent introduction to solo travel.
Continuing to travel
This year, following a stretch of intense effort and considerable stress, I have chosen to be kinder to myself and engage more often in activities that bring me joy and calmness.
Since traveling is a passion of mine, I plan to include it as often as possible – even if it means going solo.
I’d like to get back in touch with several dear friends spread across different countries. A few of them I haven’t met for many years now, but I am resolved to put in the effort needed to alter that.
This year, following my journey to South Africa, I have already reserved spots for my upcoming vacations—one with my spouse and another as a solo venture. To me, traveling independently represents the ultimate stage of genuine self-reliance. It fosters greater inner freedom. For me, exploration stands out as among the most thrilling experiences in life, and nothing will deter me from pursuing this passion. Should solitude accompany these journeys, then that’s what it shall be.
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